Friday, May 21, 2010

Pre-Marriage Counseling & Marital Conflicts Solving

We provide Pre-marriage Counselling And Marriage Success Training

Marriage, and family, can be among life's greatest assets. But these days divorce rates hover around 50% and continue to rise. Many couples assume that they won't be contributing to these statistics and some mistakenly believe that spending time with the would-be and knowing their choices and preferences willl prepare them for marriage. Surprisingly, research shows that even they have no better chance at marriage success than others. Unfortunately, half of all marriages end in divorce and only half of those that endure are truly happy in the long run.
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Many young couples believe that love will get them through the rough times. But increasing break up of love marriages indicate that a successful marriage relies on much more than just love. While love is important, it won't be enough if couples do not have the basic relationship skills that they need for a successful marriage.

Managing careers while rearing children - really requires that couples have very strong, well-established abilities to communicate, resolve issues, maintain mutuality and set goals. Without this foundation, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by stress and time pressures.

Getting married without pre-marriage preparation is like starting a business without preparing for it.

Like in any other venture, Pre-marriage preparation is very necessary to strengthen couple’s relationship skills and prepare them constructively for future challenges and conflicts that everyone inevitably faces at some point in their marriage.

What is Pre-Marital Counselling?

1. It is a skill-based pre-marriage education which can reduce the risk of divorce and lead to a significantly happier marriage. It can also reduce the stress of conflict ridden marriage.

2. It is a kind of intensive and comprehensive skill-building and education as marriage prep. The skill-building and education are the key factors in long-term divorce prevention and marriage success.

3. It is to give them real skills, real expectations and real knowledge of self and partner to face the inevitable challenges of a committed relationship.

4. It is to assist couples in developing skills to navigate their way through marriage successfully

5. It is to identify (and if possible resolve) areas of difference between couples that may become a source of conflict later
6. It is to get hold of Preventive Medicine and to reduce the risk of break up of marriage and divorce

7. It is to give exclusive marriage saving tips and conflict resolution techniques for maintaining happy and healthy relationships.

8. It is to help them lead to a significantly happier marriage

Premarital Counselling is basically a Marriage Education. The idea behind premarital counseling is that you need to strengthen your relationship before tying the knot so that you will be fully equipped to deal with the challenges and conflicts that every couple inevitably faces at some point in their marriage.

Our sessions cover the following relationship issues:

1. Interests and Activities
2. Marriage Expectations
3. Role Expectations – Work-family Balance
4. Interpersonal Communication
5. Religion and Family / Personal Philosophy
6. Family History, Traditions, Habits; In-laws
7. Finances
8. Personal Adjustment Abilities
9. Children (and Parenting)
10. Medical Fitness verification to check on Potency, HIV, Heart problems, etc
11. Long Term Goals - Personal, family, and career

Just a little effort now can make their life a whole lot better over the long run. It can ensure that their dreams of a great marriage and a great life are realized.

Marriage is not only selecting the right person, but also being the right person. Help your Daughter-Son learn how to manage their married life well and prevent marital problems in future. The best time to solve all marital problems is ‘before marriage’.
Accordingly, our counselling is not only about identifying problem areas, it's about building your strengths as a couple. Skills that are taught in this Pre-marital Counseling are:

• Compatibility Skills with Spouse and in laws
• Communication skills
• Mutual respect
• Anger Management Techniques
• Discussion skills avoiding entering into arguments
• Personal Adjustment skills
• Conflict Handling Skills

Think of premarital counseling as another task that may be on your checklist of things to get done before the wedding.

Give yourselves the best wedding present you’ll ever get by attending Marriage Success Training.


Yes... We also provide Counseling for Marital Conflict Resolution.


Contact:

Happy Marriage Consultants
E Mail: rightattitudes@yahoo.com
Web site: http://happymarriageconsultants.blogspot.com
Phone: 09869269325

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